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This guide pairs fit-first advice for an Hourglass outline with the Soft Summer colour palette, from wardrobe essentials to outfits for each season.
It sets out practical choices for balanced shoulders and hips with a defined waist, in soft, cool, greyed colours, such as
jackets and shirts that follow the waist without pulling
trousers that sit where you want the waistband, standing and seated
shoes, belts, watches and ties in Soft Summer shades
casual, business and formal outfits for spring, summer, autumn and winter
and many more!
Treat the suggestions as options to compare in a mirror, not as measurements to hit.
Key Points
01Fit comes first, so jackets should fit the shoulders and fasten without pulling, and trousers should fit the seat and thighs.
02Moderate waist shaping follows a defined waist; how much suits you depends on the garment and on you, not on a fixed figure.
03Rise labels vary between makers, so check where the waistband sits on you, standing and seated.
04The colours come from the Soft Summer palette; layering similar tones and using texture for interest is one way to wear them.
This guide pairs the hourglass outline with Soft Summer’s muted, cool palette.
This combination leaves plenty of room for refined outfits in Soft Summer’s gentle, greyed hues.
In this guide, Hourglass describes shoulders and hips that appear broadly balanced, with a more defined waist between them.
Soft Summer’s muted colours can be worn across a whole outfit, with fit doing most of the work.
If you are unsure of your body shape or your seasonal colour palette, take our quizzes.
The sections below show how Soft Summer’s muted, cool colours work with a balanced outline, with options for every occasion.
Quick Styling Guide
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| Category | Best Choices | Consider With Care |
|---|---|---|
| Silhouette | Trousers that sit where you want the waistband, standing and seated Moderate waist shaping in jackets Shoulder seams at or near the natural shoulder A straight or gently tapered leg Shaping at the centre back of jackets |
Waistbands that sit well below the waist, if you want to keep the line of the waist Waist shaping that pulls at the button Extended shoulders, if you prefer a natural line Tight legs that pull across the thigh Very boxy cuts, if you want to show the waist |
| Colours | Muted blue Soft mauve Greyed navy Dusty rose Cool sage |
Bright tones Clear colours Pure white Deep black Warm browns |
| Construction | Natural shoulder line Waistband at or near the natural waist Pocket position in proportion to the jacket A rise that suits where you wear the waistband Clean sleeve heads |
Heavy padding, if you prefer a natural line Low waist placement Bulky chest pockets A rise that leaves the waistband where you do not want it Gathered sleeves, unless you like the look |
Your Body Shape Characteristics
Our guide 10 Celebrities with Hourglass Body Shapes shows examples of this outline.
It is one of the seven body shape descriptions we use, which are Triangle, Inverted Triangle, Rectangle, Trapezoid, Hourglass, Oval and Diamond.
Triangle, Inverted Triangle, Rectangle, Trapezoid and Hourglass follow familiar styling usage; Oval and Diamond are described in The VOU’s own words.
They are styling descriptions, not diagnoses.
Hourglass describes how the outline reads, with shoulders and hips that appear broadly balanced and a more defined waist between them.
It does not require a set centimetre difference, matching chest and hip measurements or any particular muscularity.
With this outline, Soft Summer’s muted palette can go almost anywhere in an outfit.
The defined waist is a natural place for a change of colour, such as a belt or the line where jacket meets trouser, while balanced proportions also suit one colour family throughout an outfit.
Every outline can wear colour in many ways, and our guide to dressing for your body type compares them.
With an hourglass outline, many men simply spread their palette evenly across an outfit rather than placing darker or lighter colours in one area, which leaves the focus on fit and on the softness of the palette.
Your Soft Summer Colours
The Soft Summer palette is described in guides as muted and cool, with gentle softness; treat a seasonal label as a styling convention rather than a measurement, and compare colours near your face in daylight.
With a balanced outline, you can spread these soft, greyed colours across a whole outfit.
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| Colour Category | Specific Colours | Best Uses |
|---|---|---|
| Primary Focus | Muted blue Soft mauve Greyed navy Dusty rose |
Main garments such as suits, jackets and knitwear |
| Foundation Neutrals | Cool sage Soft grey Muted taupe Greyed blue |
Base layers, trousers and versatile garments |
| Accent Colours | Dusty purple Soft teal Muted plum Cool olive |
Ties, pocket squares and small accents |
Wardrobe Essentials
Base Layers
Base layers should lie smoothly under shirts and show the Soft Summer palette where they are seen.
Choose cotton undershirts, with a little stretch if you like it, long enough to stay tucked in when you sit and move.
Soft grey and greyed blue establish your foundation colours; flat seams help an undershirt stay invisible under a fitted shirt.
When the weather gets cold, a fine merino layer adds warmth without much bulk.
Shirts and Tops
A shirt that follows a defined waist without pulling suits an hourglass outline, and the muted palette sets the colour.
Dress shirts with a medium spread collar frame the face; choose a collar height that suits your neck.
The shoulder seam should sit at or near the edge of your shoulder.
Light shaping at the sides, back darts or a tailored fit can follow the waist; how much depends on the shirt and on you, so check that it buttons across the chest without pulling.
Muted blue and soft mauve establish your core selection, complemented by dusty rose and cool sage for controlled impact.
Casual shirts can be a little roomier through the body; a sturdy cotton Oxford cloth holds its shape and breathes well.
Trousers
Trousers should fit your seat and thighs first, then sit comfortably at the waist.
Formal trousers are often worn at or near the natural waist with this outline, which keeps the line of the waist; rise labels vary between makers, so check where the waistband sits on you, standing and seated.
A curved waistband or side adjusters can help the waistband follow your waist without a belt.
A straight or gently tapered leg suits a balanced outline; the right width at knee and hem depends on your size, the cloth and your shoes.
Muted taupe and greyed navy establish your formal selection, with soft grey and greyed blue offering refined casual options.
Casual trousers in a mid-weight cotton twill hold their shape and stay comfortable, with enough room through the hip and thigh to sit easily.
Jackets and Outerwear
Jackets should fit at the shoulders first and follow the waist without pulling.
Natural or lightly padded shoulders suit a balanced outline, with the shoulder seam ending at or near the edge of your shoulder and a clean sleeve head.
Choose a lapel width in proportion to the jacket and your chest rather than a fixed figure.
A jacket that covers the seat is a classic length; the old guide of reaching about the knuckles of your relaxed hand is a starting point only, since arm length varies, so compare in a mirror.
Moderate waist shaping follows a defined waist; too much pulls at the button, so check the jacket fastened, standing and seated.
Choose greyed navy for business, in a cloth with little contrast in the weave to keep the look soft.
Soft teal provides controlled impact for seasonal variation, while muted taupe offers refined casual wear options.
Guides describe these shades as soft without being flat; compare them near your face in daylight.
Casual outerwear can be cut a little roomier so it fits over knitwear.
Mid-weight wool or wool blends suit jackets, and heavier cloths suit coats; both give structure while allowing movement.
Footwear
Choose footwear in Soft Summer’s muted shades that suits the trousers and the occasion.
For formal occasions, choose Oxford shoes with
A modest heel and a bevelled waist
Closed lacing for a clean front
A last that fits the width of your foot
A neat toe cap in proportion to the shoe
Subtle burnishing in muted taupe or greyed navy
A closed channel sole for a sleek edge
For casual wear, choose footwear such as
Suede loafers in a soft grey
Derby boots in greyed blue
Trainers combining muted blue and cool sage
Soles chosen to suit the weight of the trousers
Accessories
Belt
A belt sits right at a defined waist, so choose one in proportion to your belt loops and the formality of the outfit.
Formal belt choices
Width should be slimmer for suits and a little broader for casual wear
A buckle in a brushed nickel or pewter finish
Full-grain leather with a subtle matte finish
Muted taupe or greyed navy colours
Neat edge finishing, with tone-matched edge paint
Watch
Choose a watch in proportion to your wrist.
A case that suits your wrist and slips under a shirt cuff, slimmer for dress watches
A strap or bracelet that fits your wrist comfortably
Dial colours in soft grey or greyed blue
A brushed steel or white gold metal finish to suit the cool palette
Neckwear
Choose ties in proportion to your lapels and collar.
A width in proportion to your lapels
For length, the common convention is that the tip reaches about the trouser waistband
A lightweight wool interlining helps a tie drape
Soft mauve and dusty purple for colour
As for patterns, guides often pair Soft Summer with low-contrast designs, but subtle or bold, organic or geometric, is an option to compare in a mirror
Outfit Ideas by Season
Spring Outfit Ideas
Casual Outfit
Structure your spring weekend attire around muted grey cotton trousers with a straight or gently tapered leg, in a cloth with enough weight to drape.
Layer with a soft teal polo shirt in cotton piqué with a close but easy fit through the body and a collar that stands up neatly.
Complete with suede loafers in greyed blue with rubber sole inserts.
Add a brushed steel watch with a muted blue dial and a woven leather belt in cool sage.
Business Outfit
Select a greyed navy suit in a fine worsted wool with natural shoulders, moderate waist shaping and trousers that break cleanly on the shoe.
The soft mauve shirt should feature a semi-spread collar and double-button cuffs.
A dusty purple tie in textured silk adds a sophisticated accent.
Muted taupe Oxford shoes with bevelled waists provide grounding, matched with a slim belt.
A steel chronograph with a grey dial completes the ensemble.
Formal Outfit
Black remains the traditional dinner jacket colour and is always correct for black tie.
Where the dress code allows a coloured jacket, a dinner jacket in greyed navy barathea, with moderate waist shaping and peak lapels in proportion to the jacket, is a Soft Summer option.
The trousers carry silk braiding down the side seam.
A white formal shirt with a marcella bib is the black-tie convention; a soft grey formal shirt and muted blue accessories are options where the dress code is less strict.
Black patent leather Oxfords are the black-tie convention, and navy patent is an option where the dress code allows, complemented by rhodium-plated dress sets.
Summer Outfit Ideas
Casual Outfit
Build your summer weekend attire on cool sage cotton trousers in a light twill with a straight or gently tapered leg.
Slanted side pockets lie flat and keep the line clean.
A muted blue linen shirt fits close to the body without pulling, with light shaping at the waist.
Set sleeves with minimal gathering and cuffs that sit neatly at the wrist.
Suede loafers in soft grey with stacked leather heels provide grounding.
Add pewter-framed sunglasses and a brushed steel watch with a muted blue dial, in a case that suits your wrist.
Business Outfit
Summer business calls for a tropical wool suit in muted taupe, light enough for warm weather.
A light canvas, hand-sewn armholes and pick-stitched lapels are features of some higher-end suits rather than requirements.
A soft mauve cotton-poplin shirt provides the foundation, while a dusty rose silk/linen tie introduces a controlled accent.
Choose a tie width in proportion to the lapels.
Greyed blue Oxford shoes and matching accessories maintain cohesion, with small white metal cufflinks.
Formal Outfit
Black remains the traditional dinner jacket colour and is always correct for black tie.
Where the dress code allows, a dinner suit in greyed navy wool barathea, with moderate waist shaping and straight-leg trousers, is a summer option.
A soft grey formal shirt in superfine cotton and a matching bow tie are options for a less strict dress code; at a black-tie event, a white dress shirt and a black silk bow tie are the convention.
Pewter-finished dress sets and black patent leather Oxfords complete the ensemble.
Autumn Outfits
Casual Outfit
Structure your autumn weekend around flannel trousers in greyed blue with a clean, straight leg.
Layer with a soft teal merino jumper in a fine knit, with fully fashioned sleeves and ribbing at the cuffs and waist.
Chelsea boots in muted taupe with rubber soles and a modest heel, and a brushed steel chronograph with a greyed blue dial, add refinement.
Business Outfit
Autumn business centres on a worsted flannel suit in soft grey.
Canvassed construction helps the lapels and chest drape.
The muted blue shirt has back darts that follow the waist and gauntlet buttons, while a dusty purple tie adds controlled depth.
Oxford shoes in greyed navy ground the outfit.
Formal Outfit
Black remains the traditional dinner jacket colour and is always correct for black tie.
Where the dress code allows a coloured jacket, a velvet dinner jacket in greyed navy, with grosgrain facing on peak lapels, is an autumn option.
Soft grey trousers are an option for a less strict dress code; at black tie, the convention is black trousers with silk braiding.
Winter Outfits
Casual Outfit
Winter weekends suit heavy flannel trousers in muted taupe with a clean, straight leg.
A soft mauve cashmere jumper adds warmth, with fully fashioned sleeves and ribbed cuffs and hem.
Leather boots in greyed navy with Dainite soles suit winter weather, complemented by matching leather accessories.
Business Outfit
Winter business suits a flannel suit in greyed navy, with canvassed construction and trousers with a clean, straight leg.
A muted blue shirt with mother-of-pearl buttons provides the foundation, paired with a soft teal silk tie.
Oxfords in muted taupe ground the ensemble.
Formal Outfit
Black remains the traditional dinner jacket colour and is always correct for black tie.
Where the dress code allows, a mohair and wool dinner jacket in greyed navy with peak lapels, with matching trousers with silk braiding, is a winter option.
Common Mistakes and Choices to Compare
1. Colour Choices to Compare (Soft Summer guides usually describe these as further from the palette; compare them near your face in daylight)
Clear blues where a muted tone would do
Greys with warm undertones
Bright white details near the face
Choosing black suits or knitwear where soft charcoal would do
2. Fit and Construction Slips
Waist shaping so strong that the jacket pulls at the button
Heavy shoulder padding, if you prefer a natural line
Waistbands that sit well below the natural waist, if you want to keep the line of the waist
Very tight trouser legs that pull across the thigh
3. Fabric Selection Issues
High-contrast weaves, if you prefer a soft look
Lustrous finishes, if you want to keep the muted look
Very light cloths that do not drape
Heavily textured fabrics, if you prefer a quiet look
Similar Questions
Q. How should I adapt these principles for professional environments?
In a conservative office, a grey or navy suit is the usual choice; for Soft Summer, guides suggest muted grey or greyed navy, with fit and fabric quality doing most of the work.
Add personality through texture variation rather than contrast.
Q. What modifications should I request from my tailor?
Ask for waist shaping that follows your waist without pulling, sleeves that hang cleanly, and trousers that sit where you want the waistband with an even leg.
What a tailor can change depends on the garment’s construction and the cloth available, and shoulders are among the hardest areas to alter, so discuss it at the fitting.
Q. How do I incorporate trends while maintaining my style principles?
Try trends that keep the fit at the waist and the muted coolness of your palette.
Q. How can I maintain sophistication in casual settings?
Focus on proper fit and fabric quality in casual garments.
Keep colour softness consistent across the outfit, and keep the fit right.
Q. What strategies work best for layering with Soft Summer colours?
Soft Summer guides usually suggest layering similar tones within the palette at a similar level of softness, with texture rather than strong contrast for interest.
Conclusion
Combining hourglass proportions and Soft Summer colouring gives you plenty of room for refined outfits through careful garment choice and colour.
Fit comes first, which means garments that follow your shoulders and waist without pulling.
The muted coolness of your seasonal colours then does the rest.
Treat the suggestions here as options to try rather than rules; a good fitting tells you more than any fixed figure.
Style Like a True Gentleman
Before we say goodbye, fit does most of the work, whether or not you ever work with image consultants.
Professional styling starts with getting the fit right and choosing clothes that suit the occasion; knowing your body shape and seasonal colour palette can make the choosing quicker.
Our guides also cover styling by occasion, location, season and time of day, garments, footwear, accessories and heritage fashion brands.
Take our three quizzes, then book a consultation if you would like personal help.
1. Find Your Body Shape
Different garments suit different silhouettes.
To compare your outline with the seven body shape descriptions, take our body shape quiz for men.
2. Find Your Seasonal Colours
The garments in your outfits come in many colours.
To see which seasonal colour palette may suit you, take our seasonal colour quiz for men.
3. Find Your Fashion Style
To explore your personal fashion style, take our fashion style quiz for men; it suggests styles, outfit ideas and brands to explore.
Book a Consultation with The VOU
For personal help, you can book paid consultations with our image consultants and fashion stylists.
Our styling services for men page lists the paid consultations.
Wearing luxury brands is not enough on its own; how your clothes fit and suit the occasion matters more, and our personal style guide covers the rest.
For more on labels, see our guide to logo-heavy luxury brands and how to wear them.
Contact us if you would like to book a consultation.
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